Couples Counselling

Couples counselling provides a safe and confidential space for partners who are working through the pain of betrayal, whether from physical infidelity or the discovery of pornography use. These situations often create deep hurt, mistrust, and disconnection in a relationship. Our sessions are designed to help couples rebuild honesty, restore safety, and begin creating a stronger foundation for the future.

Dr. Jill Manning’s research found that 56% of divorces cite pornography use as a contributing factor, which is is confirmed by a study that found married individuals who began viewing pornography, had about double the odds of divorcing.

At Breaking Chains Therapy, we provide a safe and confidential space for couples to talk honestly about pornography, rebuild trust, and restore connection.
It is recommended to attend at least five sessions, which follow a structured process to guide both partners through healing and reconnection:

1. Introduction Session – setting expectations, establishing safety, and beginning to share your story.

2. Formal Disclosure – creating a safe environment for the partner who has been unfaithful to take responsibility and openly acknowledge their actions.

3. Restitution Letter – providing a structured way for the offending partner to express remorse, take ownership, and outline steps of change.

4. Emotional Impact Letter – giving the betrayed partner the opportunity to share the depth of their pain and its impact in a safe, guided setting.

5. Communication Session – building healthy patterns of dialogue, trust, and connection for moving forward together.

While painful, this process allows couples to face reality with honesty and compassion. Many couples find that, with guidance, they are able to not only repair damage but also build a relationship that is more resilient, authentic, and connected than before.

Session Length: 50 minutes
Cost: AUD $100 per session